They become presidents of countries and heads of corporations, set sports records and make scientific discoveries, and yet many people have the fate of strong women to be unenviable: “cry by the window”. It is believed that men like exclusively weak, fragile women, and strong and decisive rather scare. But is it really so?
When we talk about a strong woman, we most often imagine external attributes. Such a woman has achieved a lot in her career: takes a high position in a large company or manages her own business. So, he solves issues with male perseverance, if necessary, can go on the heads, and she has an iron grip. Financially, this girl is independent and can afford a business class car, a good apartment and expensive rest several times a year.
A fit body, impeccable makeup and styling – such a woman always looks perfect. Stylish office “bows” replaces a thoughtful and no less stylish casual for informal meetings. She is ready in any situation for battle – a sort of Miranda Passoli from the film “The Devil wears Prada”.
But if you look not at the cover, but at the content, then a strong woman is primarily a psychologically mature personality. She knows what she wants and where she moves. Its real force is in the ability to make decisions, to independently realize them and bear responsibility for the consequences. It is these qualities that give her the opportunity to achieve those very noticeable external attributes to the world.
And a strong man, psychologically mature and consisting, a strong woman does not scare. Moreover: he sees at least five reasons why relations with such a woman have excellent potential.
1. A strong woman is able to support a man, be open and give real emotional closeness. You can be in partnerships with her and go to common goals together. And even if the contribution to achieving this goal is different, efforts will certainly be mutual.
2. Next to such a woman, a man goes forward and develops, as his woman grows and develops. This is not about the fact that a man needs to be “faster, higher, stronger” to conquer his companion and become a pair of “main”. The case is in the internal resource of a woman with whom she charges a man for actions.
3. A man is not afraid for a strong woman: even if something happens to him, she will not be lost. In a relationship, she does not shift responsibility for her life to him. This gives peace and confidence in the future to both partners.
4. Intimacy with such a woman gives real pleasure. A strong woman is capable of a deep relationship, her self -confidence excludes the manipulation of a partner through sex and “working out” in bed
of her complexes and limiting attitudes.
5. A man chooses a strong woman, because the weak do not suit him. A strong man cannot afford to be next to an infantile girl, because in this case he himself stagnates.